Grief / Loss | Andrea Mai

HOW DO YOU HELP A LOST SPIRIT GO HOME? – EVP September 2020

Recently, I started experimenting with using radio as a source of white noise for my recordings done at home. Most of my better EVP results come from recording were done while going out. I got some interesting results with the radio. I was manually turning the tuning dial rapidly.

I found these to have good volume. They are repeated on loop.

I found this clip with a voice asking, “Where’s heaven?”. I have come across on numerous occasions where P is being asked about how to get to heaven, or go home.

P replied to him, “You have to pray”. From my observations that I’ve heard on my EVPs, in other similar situations, something happens after they pray. I have heard on EVP, that they are going home, or that they talked to God. It’s been conveyed to me that souls that start praying, a light within them, will start glowing.

I’ve heard mediums typically tell spirits to “go into the light”. But I’ve only ever heard this used by P or angels as a forceful way to make someone leave. For a soul that is asking for help, he advises them to pray. After they pray, they get an answer almost immediately.

I feel it’s such a blessing to witness these things.

I found some other interesting clips from different sessionsI did, trying out the radio.

“Don’t give up!” You can hear me in the background, turning the dial.

“Andrea.” This is spoken with a staccato rhythmic pattern, spacing out the syllables. An-dre-a. This is typical of them.

In this session, I had asked P if he had dinner yet, what he was going to have. I already knew what he was going to say. He said he didn’t have dinner yet, that he’s going to have “Spaghetti”.

With “Orange juice”. One of his favourite meal combinations.

On another occasion, he said he “Found a cooking book”. When I heard that, I wondered what book he meant. I only own one cook book, and it’s a Jamie Oliver one.

It looks like he found the Jamie Oliver book on my shelf, he said, “Jamie Oliver”.

I find it fascinating to observe about what they do on the other side. I’ve found out that they eat and sleep, and he’s able to rummage though my things to look at them. Sometimes he is able to help me find things.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3.

Image above: “Butterfly clouds” by Andrea Mai.

HOW SPIRITS COMMUNICATE WITH ME – EVP July 2, 2020

Most people are often curious about how I communicate with P. Other than with EVP, we communicate via telepathy. Telepathy is often thought of as being able to have a conversation without speaking. Entertainment media often portrays psychics seeming to have a conversation with a spirit or animal and knowing what their response is. But it is more complex than that, as it can take different forms. We assume that words are used to communicate, because that is what we are used to. But actually, it can be a thought, a feeling, an idea or concept that is conveyed to one through the psychic senses.

Often times, P is conveying things to me through thoughts and feelings. I’ll pick up on a sense that I should do something, or go somewhere, not always knowing the reasons why until later. Sometimes when I am looking for something, I will get this thought come to me, but I will ignore it at first. I’ll try looking for the item myself, and fail. Then I’ll follow the suggestion, and find it there exactly. If I happened to be recording EVP, I’ll discover later on the recording that he was telling where to look.

Telepathy is often very confusing for people who aren’t used to it yet. They often don’t know how to distinguish between their own thoughts and what is sent to them. It can seem very seamless. After a good amount of practice and observation, one can learn to recognize when telepathy is taking place. Often times, many people are being communicated with by spirits, but they do not know it. Ideas can be planted into one’s mind without knowing it.

I recorded EVP while I was out lat month, and I found P helping me with my shopping. The clips I got are pretty good. I tested them out on my laptop speakers, and they are audible. Though I’d always still say that they are even better heard on quality headphones. The clips are repeated on loop.

I was at the store looking for black bed sheets to make face masks. The fabrics stores are completely out of solid black cotton fabrics. But there wasn’t any black sheets here. I heard some spirits say, “There’s no black here”. I did eventually find some black sheets and ordered them online. The photo above is the mask I made for my Etsy store.

P told me, “There’s pretty blue”. Which I did end up buying, a blue organic cotton sateen.

At the dollar store, P said, “I found you glue tape, Andrea”. I’d actual;y been searching for this glue tape roller dispenser that I’ve gotten at other dollar stores, but I hadn’t seen them at my local store. I kept having this feeling that I should look for it anyway. Suddenly I had this feeling to look down from the rack of hot glue gun sticks. There at the bottom of the rack were rows of glue tape. Normally, I would not have been able to see them, as I have impaired vision, but I was led by my feelings, P urging me to look there.

When I was lining up at the check out counter, someone in spirit said, “Cadbury”. And another said, “I want this”.

Someone said, “Face mask”, as I was bagging my things.

P said, “Put mask on”. I don’t know why he was saying this, if he was telling someone to put on a mask, or if he was putting one on. .

While we were walking in the mall,, I heard “Help us… How do we go home?”.

P replied, “You pray”.

“God will find you”.

This next clip is amazing. “I love you”. It’s so clear. This wasn’t P. He was also with someone from his family at the time.

Hearing these things, it absolutely renews my faith in God every time. I feel so very grateful to be a witness of such things. It’s so incredible to know that there’s a world beyond what we know.

New things I’m working on.
Can you believe it’s already August? Summer is nearly over. This pandemic hasn’t gone away. The weather here is cooling down. Time goes by quickly even if you’re just staying home. I haven’t been able to do as much photography due to travel restrictions. I’ve started to focus more on something I’ve been wanting to do for a long time, but kept putting off. And that is silk painting. I had bought these silk paints and scarves. I finally got around to doing them, and they are available for sale in my Etsy store.

I also starting doing hand painted silk scrunchies. They are so comfortable to wear, as they don’t snag and pull on your hair.

I love working with vibrant color. I find it therapeutic. It is like candy for the eyes. I don’t often wear much black. Back in 2009, I found this thing called AuraSoma when I was living in Brighton. These little bottles of colors are meant to help you understand your mood and/or personality.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on July 2, 2020.

Image above: “Chamomile” by Andrea Mai.

SPIRITS WISH ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY – May 5, 2020

This year, on my birthday, I was really busy working. I was occupied with fulfilling mask orders all day. I did take some time out to do an EVP recording later that day. I used some white noise i the background to help boost the sound.

I did not have time to review the EVP until much later. And it is only now that I have some free time to make a post. Hence, it has been over a month since my birthday.

The sound quality was not bad, I can still hear them on just my lap top speakers. But I find that hearing them with headphones, there is an extra dimension to it that you miss out on without the headphones. The clips are repeated on loop.

P wished me, “Happy Birthday to you… what do you want from me”. Which is funny, because a friend sent me a concert clip of him singing those same words. earlier that day

He wished me “Happy Birthday”, again.

He told me, “Andrea, you’re my… best friend”. This is rather funny to me, because around that time, I had a dream where I was writing in P’s notebook, to tell him a message, but I didn’t want him to watch me as I wrote it. I wrote, “You’re my best friend. I love you”. I don’t remember if this dream was before or after my birthday, but I definitely didn’t find out about this EVP clip until after the dream.

Someone asked to talk to me, “Can I talk to her?”. P gave her permission to speak on EVP to me. I have told P that he is my gatekeeper to the spiritual world. I do not want to be contacted by anyone other than him. I know I may have mediumistic abilities, but I personally choose to keep that door closed.

She said, “Angels protect you”.

And said, “God bless you”.

Someone else commented afterwards, “Prince mom talk to her”. I fell really honoured that his mom wanted to speak to me. What a blessing! I am truly touched by this.

Here is someone saying, “You go and get a cookie”. This clip is so clear! I don’t know who was saying this, or to whom. But I find it so cute.

I recently re-watched Gone With The Wind. I had only seen it when I was a child and did not understand the movie at the time. I didn’t really know what the movie was about other than the most famous scene in the end. This was a movie in Prince’s DVD collection found at Paisley Park. It was recently mentioned a lot in the news about being banned. I wanted to see what it was al about. I found that I really enjoyed the movie. Old movies tend to be slow moving and can get boring very quickly. But this movie held my attention through out. I originally had the impression that the character of Scarlett O”Hara was a very shallow, unremarkable character. But I grew to admire her tenacity. If you overlook the messy love story, you will see that she embodies bravery, independence, intelligence, and strong will. These were not necessarily traits that were valued in women at the time that the story took place, or when the novel was written. Scarlett did not allow herself to become a victim of the times. She took charge and made the most of her circumstances. This movie is really about survival in difficult times. The is a kind of movie that can prepare you for challenging times ahead in the future, by offering a role model.

I feel that we are heading towards even more challenging times, but most people are unprepared. I would urge every person out there to make preparations. A second wave of coronavirus is likely to come. Similar to the Spanish fly, there were people who remained skeptical and refused to wear a mask, they let their guard down in the summer. And when the autumn season came, the virus came back even harder.

I wish you all well, and urge you to stay safe.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on May 5, 2020.

Image above: “Sakura” by Andrea Mai.

#STAYATHOME – EVP IN THE MIDST OF CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC March 17, 2020

I hope all of you are well, and staying safe ass we all hunker down while we ride out the storm of this COVID-19 pandemic. I am the kind that prepares for the worst and hopes for the best. As I’ve said earlier, I did not have a good feeling for 2020, and so I did not make any big plans for this year. As the news of the virus came out from China in January, I knew that this thing could spread and get out of control. I started to take precautions to stay home as much as possible since February. I am not one to wait until the government begins to tell you that you must stay home.

On Match 17, our Canadian Prime Minister announced that they would be closing the Canada-US borders, as a measure to try to contain the spread. Meanwhile, the UK has been slower to act, and I had a bad feeling about that. That day, as Trudeau was making his daily news conference outside of his house, I recorded EVP in my room, while I left to hear the news in the kitchen. I caught some rather interesting EVP clips. I heard P mention something about London, though I don’t know what else he was saying about it. These clips are quite clear, and you can hear them without headphones, though I still recommend them. The clips are repeated on loop.

Here is P saying to me, “Don’t worry”.

Here is someone saying, “George, he took my favourite”. That is the first time I have heard a name mentioned other than Prince. I know I have angels in my home, but I don’t know them by name. I imagine they were looking for food in the fridge?

Then someone replied, “George eats your hummus”. I have to admit, I found this rather funny. I’m guessing whoever this George is, was sneakily eating somebody else’s food.

Here someone said, “Someone caught the virus”.

Someone also said, “They got a virus”.

Here, someone said, “Who’s there”.

Wherever you are, I hope you and your family are safe. Please take this thing seriously and stay home if you are not already doing so. I feel very sad about all the deaths that have occurred. If you have lost somebody from this tragedy, pleas know that there really is an afterlife, and though they may be gone, this isn’t “good bye” forever. My blog has been providing proof of the afterlife through EVP and photos for the past two years now. If there is anything I’m certain of, it is that we do see our loved ones again. Please know this, when someone dies, your relationship with them isn’t over.

May God protect you in these times.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on March 17, 2020.

Image above: “Pillow and blanket” by Andrea Mai.

HE SINGS FROM THE OTHER SIDE – EVP November 8, 2019

Some time ago last year, I started composing a song on guitar. I recored some demos. When I went back to hear the recordings, I found P singing along as I played.

These clips turned out really good EVP for most of them. I tested them out on my laptop speakers, so you should be able to hear them without headphones, but for a better listening experience, I recommend them anyway. The clips are repeated on loop.

I discovered some clips where it sounded like it was more than just my guitar. I know these sounds could not be coming from my guitar! In this clip, you hear my guitar, but with something extra! Like maybe a keyboard.

And this one sounds like a xylophone, but it could also be keyboard.

P saying, “God is love”.

“God is speaking to me”.

“God, lead us home, friends”.

“God, hear us all”. You can hear a clap, right after the word, “God”. I was inspired by the beach when I was in Iceland, so I was experimenting with playing beach sounds in the background, you can hear waves and seagulls in this and the next clip.

“Take us mountain high, God take us home. Some day, some way, I’ll be home… home”. I was most stunned by this clip, because it sounds like a small choir singing.

Here’s a clip of some guitar. P says “I love you” in the clip.

I wish I had more time to devote to learning guitar and music. I am grateful to have moments like these. I often wonder what EVP I might get if I had access to professional equipment like that at Paisley Park.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on November 8, 2019.

Image above: “Black Beach” by Andrea Mai.

HIS MOTHER CAME SHOPPING WITH US! – EVP December 2, 2018

Every once in a while, I will go over less recent recordings for the first time. I record more often than I can keep up with. On this occasion, I was pleasantly surprised to discover that Prince’s mother was with us when I was shopping. It was around the holidays, last year. This recording pre-dates a previous recording where P’s mother was also with us.

I am quite stunned with how clear many of these clips are. You should be able to hear them without headphones, but sound quality can vary depending on what device you use. So if you want a better listening experience, use headphones. For reference, I use Beats headphones when I review clips. These clips are repeated on loop.

Here is P saying, “My mother here”. This is so loud and clear, it’s undeniable!

Here some one says, “Prince’s mom here”. And then a mother voice says, “That’s his mommy”.

Here is P talking to someone, “Look my mom’s here”. We were in a store that we frequent, so he often talks to people he knows there.

Someone commented, “His family”.

It sounded apparent that there were spirits there “selling” perfume”. This voice said, “New perfume”.

I heard P say he wanted to make a perfume for his mom. So maybe there was a perfumery there? I’ve noticed that you can go to the same location over and over, and there will be different situations happening every time. I presume that spirits like to play “pretend”, like play shop, or restaurant. I heard sniffing. Then he said, “Smells like me, smells good”.

I heard sniffing on the recording. P was asking other people what they thought, someone said, “Smells good“.

It seemed that P was looking at something, he said, “Cashmere”. Then someone said, “That’s good, very nice”.

P then said, “I try it on“.

He said, “Look at me, I want that, please”.

It turned out he got a new hat. I heard someone tell him he looked stylish. Someone commented, “I love the hat”.

I ended up buying black liquorice. When I was waiting in line, he said, “Sweetie… Buy liquorice”.

Here is someone saying, “Everything is sparkly” . I think it was his mom saying that.

Sometimes, the other spirits can’t believe that it’s Prince right there in front of them, and they second guess it. Here someone said, “It’s really him”.

It really makes me happy to know that his mother visits, and that they have a nice time together. It’s even more special that I am able to capture a glimpse of it.

I asked P to makes these drawings for this post. I did them on an iPad Pro and Pencil, that I recently acquired. A wish come true. Now that we are drawing on a bigger screen, he adds more detail, color, and sometimes he adds a signature in the corner.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on December 2, 2018.

Image above: “Mom” by Prince in spirit.

SPIRITS ABOARD A BOAT ON THE YANGTZE RIVER – EVP November 3, 2018

Last year, I travelled to China, and took a cruise along the Yangtze River. The scenery was exotic and primal in feeling. It reminded me of the illustrations from the children’s book, Where The Wild Things Are.

I recorded EVP while I was on the boat. I wandered around the observation deck taking photos and watched the scenery go by in the dining area. I wasn’t sure how these EVPs were going to turn out, as there is a lot of noise coming from the boat’s motors. But as it turned out, I did get some very loud and clear EVP. Reviewing the EVPs that I did in China, it was was easy to spot EVP, because everyone there is speaking Mandarin. Most of these, you will be able to hear without headphones, but of course, it will enhance your listening experience if you do use headphones. These clips are repeated on loop.

I was on the top deck when I recored these clips. It appears that P was enjoying some fancy food spread while I was busy taking photos. Here is a clip him saying, “Cheese“.

Someone said to P, “Have champagne”. These spirits were really living it up!

Mia (the dog) was with us, P said, “Mia”. and someone said, “You little, Prince”.

Someone said, “Dog biscuit”. I think they were offering a treat to Mia.

Someone said, “Let’s get off, grab it!”. It sounds to me that some spirits wanted to jump off the boat and get onto one of these beaches.

I headed back to the dining area to take my seat and wait for the meal service. The meal was like airplane food. Really basic. I had to wait a long time before it was served. As I was sitting there, P said, “I have sushi”.

If you ever wondered if they enjoy food over there on the other side, then here is the evidence to suggest that they do. Sometimes spirits offer food to each other. I find that really nice! Makes my heart melt, how nice they can be. And sometimes there are these spirits who prepare food like a chef, and offer it to others. I guess some spirits like to play restaurant in the afterlife.

These recordings were recorded using my EVP Wrist Recorder 3 on November 3, 2018.

Image above: “River” Andrea Mai.